I’m a cisgender female and my partner is a cisgender male. We’ve been having PIV sex for a few weeks now (exclusively missionary position) and today he expressed a desire to change positions, asking if I wanted to be on top. I’m 5’1” and I’m a big girl (275 lbs.) and he’s over 6’ (about 235 lb.) I’ve had bad experiences on top before (it just didn’t work) so I have anxiety about it and I’m wondering if you or your readers might have some advice:
Are there any other positions you might suggest, or modifications that might make it easier for a big girl like me? I know your ask is closed but I don’t know who else to turn to! The sex is good but if there’s something he wants to try I want to do it in a way that is safe and comfortable for both of us!
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Help a big girl out with some advice? I think we’ve discussed sex with fat bodies before on the blog but I can’t remember the tips. Here is on article I remember being suggested: http://magazine.goodvibes.com/2011/06/16/fuck-me-im-fat-a-hot-guide-to-fat-sex/
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